Years later a therapist would explain how that kind of rejection changes a person, but back then I only knew that I kept moving forward because I had no other choice.
At nineteen I started rebuilding my life with purpose, enrolling in community college and discovering that I had a natural talent for automotive engineering.
Machines made sense in ways people never did, because they followed rules and never lied or twisted the truth for convenience.
After transferring to Washington State University, I completed my degree while working at a small auto shop run by an older mechanic named George Miller who treated me with quiet respect.
He never pushed me to talk about my past, and instead focused on teaching me skills that helped me build a future I could rely on.
Meanwhile the lie that destroyed my life remained buried, and I avoided searching for anything related to my family because I feared reopening wounds that had barely begun to heal. In my mind they had chosen their version of the story, and I had learned to exist without them.