I replied with one line.
I hope the day is peaceful for you.
I did not attend the wedding.
Instead, I flew to Geneva for a leadership summit tied to a European partner firm in which I had recently acquired a significant stake. It was not a revenge trip. It was simply where my life now was. International strategy meetings, acquisitions, long conversations about ethical scaling and governance and what it means to build structures that can survive ambition without rotting from it.
The morning of the wedding, I hiked a mountain trail outside the city with two old friends who had known me before any of this mattered. We talked about our knees, our businesses, mortality, ridiculous investor pitches, and whether solitude was a skill or a scar. Nobody cared what I wore.