I did not leave.
I stayed through the toast, through the cake, through the speeches about partnership and future and the joining of families. I stayed because every slight, every omission, every lazy assumption was data. I was done hoping my family would reveal depths they had never bothered to cultivate.
When I finally left, the air was cool and smelled faintly of wet soil and crushed grapes. I sat in my car with both hands on the steering wheel and replayed the moment Logan asked if I had Ubered there.
Not because the joke was clever. It wasn’t. But because everyone around us had accepted its logic: of course a man in a cheap hoodie could not possibly belong in a place like that on equal terms.